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The Resource Feeling good together : the secret of making troubled relationships work, David D. Burns

Feeling good together : the secret of making troubled relationships work, David D. Burns

Label
Feeling good together : the secret of making troubled relationships work
Title
Feeling good together
Title remainder
the secret of making troubled relationships work
Statement of responsibility
David D. Burns
Creator
Subject
Language
eng
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Burns, David D
Dewey number
158.2
Illustrations
illustrations
Index
index present
Literary form
non fiction
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  • Interpersonal relations
  • Conflict (Psychology)
  • Interpersonal conflict
  • Cognitive therapy
Label
Feeling good together : the secret of making troubled relationships work, David D. Burns
Instantiates
Publication
Note
Includes index
Contents
Why can't we all just get along? -- What the experts say -- The dark side of human nature -- Why we secretly love to hate -- Three ideas that can change your life -- Diagnosing your relationship -- How good is your relationship? : the relationship satisfaction test -- What do you really want? -- The price of intimacy -- The relationship journal -- Good communication vs. bad communication -- How we control other people -- Three troubled couples -- How to develop loving relationships with the people you care about -- The five secrets of effective communication -- The disarming technique -- Thought and feeling empathy? -- Inquiry : "did I get that right?" -- "I feel" statements -- Stroking : "I it" vs. "I thou" relationships -- Putting it all together : solutions to common relationship problems -- Making the five secrets work for you -- Mastering the five secrets -- Using the five secrets in real time : the intimacy exercise -- Intimacy training for couples : the one-minute drill -- Common traps and how to avoid them -- "Help! the five secrets didn't work!" -- Helping and problem-solving -- Hiding your head in the sand : conflict phobia and anger phobia -- Apologizing : "Can't I just say, 'I'm sorry'?" -- Submissiveness : "I must please you" -- Resistance revisited : "why should I have to do all the work?" -- Advanced techniques -- Changing the focus : is there an elephant in the room? -- Positive reframing : opening the door to intimacy-and success -- Multiple-choice empathy : how to talk to someone who refuses to talk to you
Control code
000042915539
Dimensions
25 cm.
Edition
1st ed.
Extent
ix, 274 p.
Isbn
9780767920704
Other physical details
ill.
Label
Feeling good together : the secret of making troubled relationships work, David D. Burns
Publication
Note
Includes index
Contents
Why can't we all just get along? -- What the experts say -- The dark side of human nature -- Why we secretly love to hate -- Three ideas that can change your life -- Diagnosing your relationship -- How good is your relationship? : the relationship satisfaction test -- What do you really want? -- The price of intimacy -- The relationship journal -- Good communication vs. bad communication -- How we control other people -- Three troubled couples -- How to develop loving relationships with the people you care about -- The five secrets of effective communication -- The disarming technique -- Thought and feeling empathy? -- Inquiry : "did I get that right?" -- "I feel" statements -- Stroking : "I it" vs. "I thou" relationships -- Putting it all together : solutions to common relationship problems -- Making the five secrets work for you -- Mastering the five secrets -- Using the five secrets in real time : the intimacy exercise -- Intimacy training for couples : the one-minute drill -- Common traps and how to avoid them -- "Help! the five secrets didn't work!" -- Helping and problem-solving -- Hiding your head in the sand : conflict phobia and anger phobia -- Apologizing : "Can't I just say, 'I'm sorry'?" -- Submissiveness : "I must please you" -- Resistance revisited : "why should I have to do all the work?" -- Advanced techniques -- Changing the focus : is there an elephant in the room? -- Positive reframing : opening the door to intimacy-and success -- Multiple-choice empathy : how to talk to someone who refuses to talk to you
Control code
000042915539
Dimensions
25 cm.
Edition
1st ed.
Extent
ix, 274 p.
Isbn
9780767920704
Other physical details
ill.

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